This will be a very short rant mainly because I don’t usually rant.
I just wanted to say that I love the social graces. Many things about them are lovely. Having doors opened for me, being utterly female in dress to please my man and make him feel utterly male, polite voice volume in luxurious restaurants, all these things are the stuff of social grace and make me swoon. They just bring delight and peace, a sense that all is right in the world
On the flip side, social boundaries can be so limiting. When I wrote about touch, for example. There are so many friends and even generally nice people who aren’t friends that could use a hug or a caress. Why can’t that be okay? But it’s not. You can’t go up to a terminally grumpy person and say, “You seem really tense, let me give you a blowjob, you’ll feel so much better!”
I know, I can’t have ALL the niceties and NONE of the boundaries at the same time. I get it. We really have it good in the current age. Victorian times were too strict, Roman times too dangerous.
Still, it’d be nice. Anyone need a blowjob? Back rub? LOL
Not sure I want you to have all that social freedom…. kissing you might become hazardous duty. My little BJ Fairy.
You commented!
LOL, Daddy. Well, yeah, there are diseases and such to worry about too. I wasn’t completely serious, it was just a ‘Wouldn’t it be nice?’ musing.
But, I love that you commented. I think my new motivation is going to be, “What can I write that will make Daddy comment?!?” ๐๐
Lol
Ask My phone!
I’m a hug addict, so…
It’s a pity, indeed, that we have to refrain from time to time. For instance, I have a very good relation with my boss, and she’s lovely. Well, when we meet, we kiss and hug each other (and I would do more to her if I could!!!;) ), and some people think that to be odd. ยดYou don’t go hugging your bossยด, they tell me.’Well..YOU don’t. I doยด.
So, if a hug suprisses many, if we were saying “hello” and then went into oralsexing people…;)
Huggies and kisses!
It is a shame people can be ‘touchy’ to where a hug in the work place could be taken poorly. I think everyone needs a hug sometimes! Oh well, such is life.
Yes, iit’s a pity.
Oh, by the way, last night you come to my mind because a I had a small huggie orgy ๐
I would love a woman to offer a blowjob, just to cheer me up, especially if the woman concerned was you.
Glad to know you enjoy touch as well Jack. ๐
LOL this was perfectly written! I understand where you come from, but…. I don’t think everyone would enjoy being touched. So, is it really about boundaries (aka what kind of touching) or others being okay with being touched at all? I shall think about this at work today. ๐
Why, thank you! I’m glad you see where I was going with that lol. No, there are some who sadly miss all the touching can provide. But such is life. It you could touch everyone then it wouldn’t be special for the ones you can I suppose. ๐๐๐